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February 21, 2026

Thank you but no thank you

I have gotten a couple of comments with: 'Beautiful blog.' And then another comment followed that at the same instance (I get the email alerts at the same time): 'Please read my post.'  I've seen other bloggers getting the same comments and they left them published and I did the same thing. Then a few months after I got those, I get them again (they come in pairs or triplets with a repetition of one or the other comment) and again, I let them go. Then for about a couple of months, no more of those comments and then they came again just last month - I just couldn't stand them so I marked them as spam.
    As a blogger, I don't think you should beg people to visit you which these messages seemed to say but perhaps other people have a different interpretation. I didn't visit this person because I just didn't feel right to do so. And I couldn't decide if they are spam or not. Why do they leave the same three comments with the same wording over and over? You could say it's because of language constraint but that still didn't explain the repetition. Getting these same comments over and over seemed like spam so why should I respond to them or visit them when they might turn out to be spam?
    Then there's these comments that are weirdly worded, gave no clue as what they are trying to say, like they are quoting song lyrics or talked as if they belonged to a different century or planet and they didn't seem like real comments even if they did use my name. No idea what was the point of these comments. Besides that, they get marked as spam by Blogger so I left it.
    Then there are those one-word comments. I think if you cannot think of at least three words to say, just don't do it. Actually, it is just better not to leave a one-word comment because they'll be marked as spam by Blogger but I got sick of marking them as not spam so I sometimes left it.
    And then there were a few bloggers who left generic but nice comments but they had commercial blogs/websites so I didn't return a comment. I don't believe readers have to return comments on commercial blogs or any blogs that didn't interest them.
    It shouldn't matter what readers say in their comments but I guess I'm a picky blogger but also Blogger somehow marked most the above comments as spam so if I don't check, they stay there in that little space until I delete them (which probably never happen because I loath to check that space.)  I like comments to make sense and that I don't have to decipher them or wonder if they are spam or not. Maybe there should be some rules for commenting? I don't know. There's no right or wrong way to leave a comment but common sense should to be something to consider, right?

If you're a blogger, do you think it's right to mark certain comments as spam even when you're not certain they should be? 

February 19, 2026

Fiction: Ghost Aunt

Katie didn't like to clean so she was happy to let Aunt Margo do all the cleaning around her small home. But Margo had no sense of time so she could have the vacuum on at 3 in the morning or 11 at night. But what was worst was, Margo could make things disappear if it didn't please her. Two months ago, Katie's microwave went missing for a week before Margo told her she had given it to Katie's neighbor who needed the appliance since her stove didn't work and she couldn't afford to get it fixed. Katie didn't know how Margo did anything but she always had a good reason so Katie never questioned her actions. Not until Nick.
    Nick, Katie's boyfriend of almost six months, came to her place for dinner. After Katie confessed she wanted to break up with him, he got furious and overthrown the table and then he started pounding on her until she was unconscious. When she woke up, Katie was in the hospital. Her neighbor had called an ambulance. 

February 17, 2026

Words for Wednesday Prompts - Feb 18, 2026

This February, I am the host for Words for Wednesday. Words for Wednesday is started by Delores and continued by Elephant's Child who sadly passed away. River at Drifting through life is our new coordinator but the prompts are provided and hosted by various people and hosted on various blogs. The aim of Words for Wednesday is to encourage us to write using some or all of the prompts.

This week's prompts are: 
1. kerplunk
2. erase
3. meek
4. plead
5. tenacious

Charlotte's color for February is Electric Rose (#f00699) which you can see it better here.

You may write your piece in the comments or post it on your blog. If posting on your blog, please leave a direct link to the post so we can all visit you. Have fun writing!